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Friday, October 5, 2012

Decriminalizing Suicide



SUICIDE in many parts of the world has been a criminal matter. The Union Government of India is now pushing to decriminalize ‘suicide’. Over one million people die by suicide every year. The World Health Organization (WHO) estimates that it is the 13th leading cause of death worldwide. In India alone, about one lakh die annually.

In India, attempted suicide is an offense punishable under Section 309 of the Indian Penal Code. Section 309 reads thus: Attempt to commit suicide. "Whoever attempts to commit suicide and does any act towards the commission of such offense, shall be punished with simple imprisonment for a term which may extend to one year or with fine, or with both."

The reasons are varied - academic pressures,financial difficulties,failed relationships,mental disorder and many more.No one would want to end their lives,only if the person concerned gets the appropriate help and guidance in the worst of the times,discussing and sorting out the issue is the wise thing to go about it.Decriminalizing suicide is definitely a step in the right direction.


Paying Guest



After college, I wanted to work for a brief period of 2-3 years before going for an MBA.Didn’t get the job of my liking during campus placements,Yuss ! The college sucked at that despite being a National Institute, and determined to get what I wanted, came to Bangalore to try my never so lucky luck.

Puneet had already joined his company and I joined him in Bangalore on the 16th of June, 2012.The other boy Pranjal, was also scheduled to join in Bangalore but not before a month’s time. P.G (paying guest) would do it for a month, two of us thought, and then we can move to a rented apartment. On that very day, 16th June we moved to a PG in Kundanahalli Colony (Sri Venkateshwara that’s the name I faintly remember) for a month. We paid the owner, some Reddy he was, in advance the complete sum of 11k which was way too silly, trust me! These PG owners cannot be trusted at any cost and I repeat they are that breed of Homo sapiens which cannot be trusted at all. It was a single room meant for three and we both took it for the price of three. I must say that the owner made every possible attempt not to let us at peace each single day.

Wasn’t easy staying there but on the 9th day things did turn ugly, on the 24th morning round about at 8 am, he just forced us to shift to some other room, I am being way too generous in even calling it a room,disgusting.It just had a single bed and the room ended there and one of us was suppose to share another room with some another guy.Puneet had to leave for his office and I too was having a call, so we were kind of helpless, Hobson’s choice, we shifted our stuff. That very moment I had decided not to stay there anymore. To my rescue, my cousin was also in Bangalore. In the evening, after returning from the interview, quite obvious I had screwed up my chance, grabbed my stuff and left for my cousin’s place.Told that Reddy that I am leaving!

After a few days,I was there visiting Puneet.Made the following arguement with Reddy;

Since I had stayed there for only 9 days, I asked him to return the rest of the amount which he blatantly refused. I mean the guy wasn’t even listening at all and on top of that sounding way too harsh and commanding.How sick was that? "Tumhara marzi nahi chalega",these were his EXACT words,south Indian accent being in sub-conscious mind meanwhile,you could imagine what he was playing.

That were my first few days in Bangalore.It is quite unlikely to happen to every third person but I would genuinely suggest  to thoroughly research before shifting,the one thing we did not do!

Monday, August 13, 2012

Chapter Two


I had always wanted to pen down this phase of my life, surviving the earthquake of ’01 Gujarat, have had varied experiences from being practically homeless to traveling nights and days in a truck on the shattered highways of Gujarat, the lows they say, in a span of say about a week .If I say nothing changed much, it would surely be an understatement considering the impact the event had on millions living there and on the land.
I never thought of putting this on a blog someday but then – Why not? So, here I am with another of my unforgettable memories, my life before the event and how it all changed since.

Chapter One-The Life Prior to Jan 26, 2001

Gujarat, land of the legends as we call it, we had come to Bhuj from Assam in ’94 or later, I am not sure of the year though and Madhapura was the first place my father arranged for a rented house where we would be spending the next 25-30 months.Well, I must tell you Madhapura has been the richest Asian village where every person supposedly had a minimum of INR 1.8 million in his bank balance, that was in a news report I happened to read sometime back. Wikipedia also has it. My dad was an Army personnel back then and he preferred having his family staying with him. So, we had to shift to a new place (field or peace, it varied) every 3-4 years. I had the luxury to study in various schools across the country, at the same time it was not very easy to acclimate to the new place every new time.

My father got me admitted in another of the  Army Schools, Bhuj this time, in UKG,it was the class of 1994.First few days were very hard for my parents, specially my mom. I faintly remember, my dad used to leave by 5 am on most of the occasions, my mom used to prepare my lunch box, prepare me for the school which I really hated attending and she used to go with me to my school, we would be there by 7:00 am, she would be there till the recess and make sure I had my lunch and then leave for the house. I think she continued this practice for about 10-15 days. And then I was used to the drill, I did quite well I would judge.

Madhapura or simply Madhapar,the place - our locality was lively, we had a huge ground in front of the house, a Mandir, lots of neighbours and I remember a girl, she used to bully me every time she spotted me, she maybe a 5-6 years elder to me. Days passed and I never knew when I learnt Gujarati, I could very well speak and understand the dialect back then but now I have only little understanding of it. Same was the case with Bengali and Assamese, had to move (Army thing) just when I had the grip on them.

Let me take a leap, we now had shifted to a new house in the Cantt area, the township was called Karam Singh Lines or simply the K.S.Lines named after the military war hero Lance Naik Karam Singh who is the recipient of second Param Vir Chakra. I was in 3rd grade. I was also experimented upon a bit, admitted to Kendriya Vidyalaya in the 2nd grade, but alarmed at my degrading academics I was put back to Army School, so here was I back to my original school, I had started liking it by then. My sister also in the same school with me, she is two years younger to me.

The township, mostly double storied, had modern day architecture had separate quarters for every regiment, a park for the kids,playground,hospital,a library, bus service to outside in the weekends. Kids rushing for schools were a normal weekday scenario. In school we had a rotation policy for seating, come Monday and we had to shift to the next  bench in front, so this way everyone was supposedly given chance to sit at the last bench. 15th Aug,each year was celebrated as the “Raising Day” for our regiment and it was big. Local event management companies would be usually hired for the grand celebrations; feast, fireworks, fun, party, dance – FAUJI way. It was their style of celebrating the life. The company (regiment) would also arrange for the 2-3 day family trip to tourist places in Gujarat every year.

The Activity (Tectonic) Day 26th Jan, 2001

Round about 8.30 am, Gujarat was hit by a magnitude 7 above earthquake. The scale of damages to life and property was immense. Many say, because it were a 26th Jan, devastation was even more. It was a national holiday and many were still in their homes when it all happened. My dad at that time was on his fire fighting training in Pune, I was in school, my sister decided to attend the function at one of her friend’s school, so she was not with me and my mom was back at home. All four people at different locations and none had the clue of the rest which at that time was really scary. Dad got to know about the tragic happening a little late; he immediately flew home in some army helicopter carrying medical aid to the place. Mom was horrified, stayed where she was; I think she was pulled out of the house by the couple living upstairs.

It was the Republic Day, so we were supposed to be properly dressed in whites for the celebrations at school. The school had planned full length cultural events to mark the auspicious day. Assembly began at usual time and immediately after that cultural events were supposed to commence. We had only began the patriotic song and barely sung the first two lines-

saare jahaan se accha Hindustan hamaara
ham bulbulain hai is ki, yeh gulsitaan hamaara !!!

At first I thought it was a surprise, 26th Jan was supposed to have something special and so this is it. But then, I hear shouts, cries as everyone (mostly children) was running helter skelter.Now I strongly feel, it was a real lucky decision that the program was scheduled outdoors, had it been an indoor event the story surely would have been different. We were already in open space and just had to avoid the trees (the neem tree which was in the middle of the ground looked terrible after the shock and could fall any moment but luckily that didn’t happen) and electricity cables decided to take the swing.

“Koi neem ke ped k paas nhi jaaega, sab open ground mai rahenge”, commanded one of the teachers. The others trying to control the whole mass of school children which was in total chaos and panicked like hell instigated by the major tectonic activity. After a few minutes when it settled down a bit, we were asked to leave for home, strict advice-head straight for your home, don’t go anywhere else, your parents are waiting for you. Didn’t really get to the seriousness of those words that time. I left for my home and why on world I don’t know till date I decided to take the road, I was sure scenes would be different from usual.

We had this theatre named “FLAMINGO” just outside our school campus; we used to have our annual functions, cultural events and other celebrations there. I saw my first Hollywood movie there “THE TITANIC”. It was simply exquisite, an open air theatre, comfortable seating, deafening sound system and a nice small canteen. The ticket for every show was a nominal amount of Rs.5 per person. It had a huge screen which was reduced to half and I could see the rest lay on the ground .I stood for a few moments to confirm what I had just seen. A few metres further we had our AWWA centre, it had everything, a CSD, a stationery shop, a grocery store, a restaurant, and almost anything could be bought from there. I don’t much remember what happened to the centre; I just hope and wish it were not demolished like the FLAMINGO.

I was picked on my way back by my uncle who lived upstairs; he took me home which was not the same I left in the morning. He came looking for me. And what do I see while returning; buildings brought down like they were made from nothing more than the playing cards, those which could manage not to go down were damaged severely. Return home, I see my mother weeping; she was waiting for me and my sister. She had still not returned from her friend’s school but no worries she came a few minutes later, all safe.

The Ordeal

Initially I did not understand the depth of the situation. I thought of it another calamity, like the yester year cyclones which hit the whole of Gujarat. But as the day progressed, situation sank into me, had a clear thought something bad has happened.

Day 1
By afternoon, everyone had returned to the locality, no matter where they have been. But then, all feared to enter the homes, buildings looked in real bad shape and could collapse any moment, given the situation was very much possible where aftershocks were frequent. One of the homes which I saw had its kitchen brought outside and placed almost 4 feet away from where it had been. Army had taken control of everything. It provided for medical aid, the Unit Mess had taken care of the food. I feel we have been really lucky we were based in the cantt area while the situation outside was a total breakdown of the system, people did not had food, no shelter, no aid of any sort immediately. Whereas inside it wasn’t that bad. We had doctors available for any emergency, tents were stretched out as make shift shelter which was much safer, every possible help was provided.

Day 2
My dad returned from Pune the next day, 27th Jan, and again mom broke into tears. I was like mummy stop it, I did not know how to respond, embarrassed, yes I was! Come next day, I got to know that various schools have decided not to conduct this year final examination and instead all the students would be given a general promotion to the next class, which is pretty wise considering there were no schools left for, except for the board classes and thus I have never written my 6th grade paper. The various boards had their board examination in make shift schools, either in open or inside temporary structures.
A senior leader from the Central Govt. was rushed to inspect the loss, George Fernandes, the then defence minister, visited the K.S.Lines.Compensation was announced for the deceased and severely injured. Relief work and aid started to pour in.

Day 3 and 4
It would take another year or so to get life back to normal so my parents decided to move our native place Jabalpur. The big question - how do we shift? Railway tracks uprooted at many sites so trains weren’t an option, highways badly damaged but a road journey was manageable.So, roads was it! We hired a truck for moving and I think there were a total of 6 families who moved with us including the saviour couple that lived upstairs. It was already dark by the time we were leaving on the 29th evening, dad and one of his friend played the GPS as roads were not in the best of the shape. They had a map on what route to follow.

We reached our destination after a 3 day long journey. It was a relief; finally we were out from the plight. We can now again have new starts after the blip. We got new house in the Jabalpur Cantt area, were we lived for the next 42 or so months. I got admitted into the Army School here in the new session 2001-02 for the 7th grade. The first day in school, I was asked about my previous school by my new class teacher, she taught us geography. And when I answered Bhuj, everyone gave a How lucky is this chap look, I told them the whole experience.

I feel lucky to have again come in contact with some of my friends from ASB.I am sure I would be visiting the place again very soon and recollecting some of the best memories. It might have a lot but the old Bhuj is still afresh in my mind.

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

The knock out experience : IND vs AUS Quarter Finals CWC 2011

It was a spring evening in the month of august last year(2010,had started this back then :P) ; Puneet and I happened to surf the KYAZOONGA.COM while having the usual cricket chat.
We looked for a good cricket match to book our tickets and after applying all mathematics(finally it was of some use) which we learned till date (the last mathematics paper that we wrote was approximately a year back  ,so we were kind of pathetic  while doing our calculations) and checking all possible permutations and combinations;  booked  ourselves two tickets for the quarterfinals scheduled at Ahmedabad (SARDAR PATEL GUJARAT STADIUM,MOTERA) ,on the 24th MARCH 2011<EAST STAND>. The website mentioned that the tickets would be send  a  week before the commencement of the tournament .
PS : it was only later we discovered that the home team was given the advantage of playing at home had they reached the KNOCK OUT stages.

phewwwwwwww..... that was lucky I thought, a sense of achievement actually.(Had INDIA not been to the knock out stages of the WC ,I wouldn’t have been writing this thing !)

All this while what I was trying was to somehow get the tickets for the match between INDIA and SOUTH AFRICA (it was quite intelligent to watch a good game of cricket than go and watch a quarter final  b/w NZ and ENG :P ).

I never imagined how lucky I was to get those tickets .The quarter final opponent was going to be decided by the outcome of the game b/w INDIA and WEST INDIES(I prayed it to be LANKA ... fingers crossed).If we win ,we will face AUSTRALIA  and if we lose , we play LANKA. What a match its going to be I thought ,my first ever  live match.......And it was INDIA vs AUSTRALIA in the knock out stages of a world cup ......\m/ !!!! I wished nothing more.

But I had a MINOR issue as whether I would be able to attend the MATCH or not.Our MINOR(cousins of unit tests at the college level) exams were scheduled from  23rd to 29th MARCH.Didn't matter,it was decided that we will bunk our MINOR exam and go to MOTERA.

I never told my parents about the crime that I was about to commit(missing THE RAANGNEKAR mam’s paper was indeed a crime ), I only told that the exams were starting from 26th.....by that time I would already be back.

But none of that mattered to us, cricket crazy people !!!!!
We somehow got to Ahmedabad......no reservations(at the mercy of Indian railways)

PS : waiting tickets for Somnath Express, the only connectivity, and a 14 hr long journey.
We reached destination A (read Ahmedabad) by 8.00 am, booked ourselves a room............ (yepp we managed to get one and that too for an affordable price) and straightaway headed to the MOTERA stadium.
What scenes - MAD CITY, the whole city was in festive mood, banners, flags, hoardings, posters everything covering both sides of the lane. Everything related/unrelated to cricket was saleable. Height of profitability – PAANI POUCH  being sold for Rs 5.....that was crazy I thought  ,not that we did not need water but we had our own stock but for our bad luck water bottles were not allowed inside the stadium .And we did not forget to paint our faces in the tri colour.

# every Indian supporter must get the tri color or else hes not in the INDIAN version of the BARMY ARMY of England  !!

It was already 12 noon by the time we reached stadium .Lucky again :) ...The line being almost  half a kilometre  we were in the first 100 metres  for the entrance to the east stand (GATE  18-22).I had a sense of THE GREAT MANITIAN BHASAD,infact even greater than ours.

We also had our fun moment.In all chaos a shrilling voice yelled(in typical gujju accent)- “A AAO KYA AAGE,......... (after a brief pause)...HATH MILAANE”.
Another mature sounding voice demanded – “DU KYA ........MISSED CALL”.
There was another group of people who started a fight ......They were not sure of any better way to kill time in that heating sun.It was only then that the place- “AHMEDABAD POLICE”, made its presence felt.....no questions asked only their LATHI spoke,everyone else was happy keeping quiet.
 
PS : the cue was more than 4 km long (courtesy : Ahmedabad Times) and it took us almost two and a half hours to get inside the stadium.
We could get inside only after 2.30 pm and grabbed seats and still there was some energy left with us as to write a poster which said –
“SORRY MOM
I MISSED MY
EXAMS COZ I CANT MISS
SACHIN’S 100"
Our poster for the match.

I don’t know what my AUSSIE friends wrote in theirs.....yepp we made friends with two AUSTRALIANS who were on a trip to INDIA. They took a 6- month off from their regular academics and were travelling for 2 months now. But poor Liam,got tickets in BLACK.

After waiting for so long in the sun ,it was moment to enjoy, Australia won the toss and elected to bat.And Dhoni continued with his experiment of opening  the bowling attack with R Ashwin. And there was the field set we couldn't ask better for , HARBHAJAN SINGH in the third man area (EAST STAND) covering the boundary.

The inexperienced INDIAN bowling kept the screwes tight for the whole of mandatory powerplay.Meanwhile Ashwin scalped(bowled) Watson of some brilliant off-spinners .The next Aussie batsman ,the captain(PUNTER) himself hadn’t had a very tournament so far but looked to hit the purple patch,he again hit an ODI ton  in a WORLD CUP match.Australia amassed a total of 260.

India started the run chase quite steadily with a boundary of the third ball by Brett Lee. The little master also on duty,guiding the ball to the boundary or cheeky sin gals and doubles.Sehwag going down on the first ball of the 9th over by Watson.Ravi Shastri,"So Gautam Gambhir comes out to the middle at number 3.India have lost their first wicket."Another moment of high emotion and drama of another Watson delivery,an appeal for a catch and Gauti must have had his heart in his mouth.Ganguly complaining-"will this be counted as a review !!!"
18000 runs for Sachin Tendulkar in 1 Day Cricket,announced DADA from the commentator box.

Sachin completes 18000 runs in 1 Day cricket.
The little master was out in the 19th over to Tait but not before completing another of his classy innings.He made 53 of 68 deliveries.Soon Kohli,Gautam,Dhoni  followed back to the pavilion and India were reduced to 187/5.Suresh Raina made his way to the ground and rest is best left to the readers to again live the moment of victory,joy,pride.Revenge was taken.It was India that won the match and cruised to the semi-finals to face arch rivals Pakistan and Yuvraj and Raina made sure they didn't loose any more wickets.
The majestic Yuvraj roar is still afresh in every Indian Cricket fan,flags waving,emotions high.We have done it,giving Aussies the taste of their own medicine,by far my best cricketing moment.
   
I bet you wont ever be bored to see this again and again.


few of the memorable excerpts - 

Emotional Words of Dhoni :
Sleepless Nights ,grey hairs with the same fade of beard... It was a bunch of youngsters given to me along wit a god...Everyone mastered their skill but i was alone failing everytime...

But when sachin walked back into the pavilion with his face down i was upset...I quickly padded up.The whole team was looking at me and gary alone backed my decision to move up.

I was not even able to run but the only thing that flashed my mind was sachin's childish face looking at the entire crowd ''oh sorry it was my mistake to leav the ground soon'' will anyone like god to put his face down in front of his own crowd? Yes i cant allow tat happen...

I controlled my pain and decided to go...Finally we had the last laugh with a cry !!

Tendulkar has carried the burden of the nation for 21 years. It was time we carried him on our shoulders: Virat Kohli

I would wind up with a few pictures,yes we managed to sneek in our camera into the stadium,I guess no one else could.

Puneet (left) and I after India won the match

 






Look at the captain's eyes.The big shot that won us the World Cup.













Champions - World Cup 2011.



That ends my knock out experience.Hope you all had the same fun and joy reading it,which I experienced.Take care folks.